FOR TEENS

Teen Dating Safety

Violence in relationships is not just an adult problem. Teenagers often experience violence in dating relationships. Statistics show that one in three teenagers has experienced violence in a dating relationship. In dating violence, one partner tries to maintain power and control over the other through abuse. The following are warning signs that a dating partner might become abusive:

  • Isolates you from family, friends, or other acquaintances
  • Is unable to control frustration or anger
  • Is irrationally jealous and possessive toward you (checks up on you; demands to know where you have been and who you  have been with)
  • Tries to control you by giving orders and making decisions; may try to control of what you wear, whom you see, where you go
  • Abuses drugs or alcohol and pressures you to do the same
  • Demands your undivided attention even when inappropriate
  • Becomes angry if you make decisions or plans or take initiative
  • You worry about your partner’s reaction  to things you might say or do
  • Ignores personal space or pressures you for sex
  • Makes threats to you or others
  • Has a history of violence or a fascination with power
  • You deserve to be treated with respect and to treat others with respect.  If your rights and boundaries are not being respected by your partner, you have a right to end that relationship.

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