Violence in relationships is not just an adult problem. Teenagers often experience violence in dating relationships. Statistics show that one in three teenagers has experienced violence in a dating relationship. In dating violence, one partner tries to maintain power and control over the other through abuse. The following are warning signs that a dating partner might become abusive:

• Isolates you from family, friends, or other acquaintances
• Is unable to control frustration or anger
• Is irrationally jealous and possessive toward you (checks up on you; demands to know where you have been and who you  have been with)
• Tries to control you by giving orders and making decisions; may try to control of what you wear, whom you see, where you go
• Abuses drugs or alcohol and pressures you to do the same
• Demands your undivided attention even when inappropriate
• Becomes angry if you make decisions or plans or take initiative
• You worry about your partner’s reaction  to things you might say or do
• Ignores personal space or pressures you for sex
• Makes threats to you or others
• Has a history of violence or a fascination with power
• You deserve to be treated with respect and to treat others with respect.  If your rights and boundaries are not being respected by your partner, you have a right to end that relationship.

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